Since 1920. the migration correspondence of the family Udovič-Valenčič-Hrvatin has spaned over many decades among Jelšane (Slovenia), Cleveland (USA) and Buenos Aires (Argentina). In the text, I present the correspondence in the period 1940-1960, when it included also packages of food, medicine and clothes. It offers an important material for the research of “a tight network of exchanges of support” in which the bare neccessities in the packages conveyed the unvisible expressions of solidarity, caring and love. To present the emotions of those who left and those who stayed even better, I combine the family correspondence with the life narratives. In this way, the subjective reality of the migrants’ relationships could be seen in its complexity and controversy.